Before you go
Noto, Italy
We met on hinge, toured the world, and now we're staging a baroque fever dream in Sicily with our favorite people from said world tour.
If you're reading this, you're already part of the story. We're glad you're here. Here's the plan to help you prepare.
Schedule overview
8.22 — Arrivals
Check-in and join the whatsapp group to meet other early arrivers.
Perhaps some lazy evening dinners and cards, and spa hours for anyone who arrives early and looks tired.
8.23 — Welcome to noto - a walking food tour for early arrivers
For guests who arrive a day early we will wander Noto's old town: gelato, piazzas, ceramics, lemon-scented everything.
8.24 — Masseria cardinale
Pool welcome party at the masseria.
Optional cooking class.
Casual dinner.
8.25 — The wedding
Chariots → ceremony → procession → dinner → dance floor → afters, if your body allows.
8.26 — Recovery
Slow brunch. Nobody is required to be charming.
Getting to noto
Closest airport: Catania (CTA) ~1 hour from our masseria.
Taxis, private transfers, or rental cars will be coordinated by our concierge.
Departures: We'll aim to coordinate group transfers back to CTA for return travel.
Travel note: We strongly recommend booking flights by early April. August is peak season in italy and prices + availability move fast. If you know you're coming, booking sooner = less stress later.
Where to stay
We've secured two beautiful masserias from the 24-26th and we will handle all room placements after RSVPs are in.
- Masseria Cardinale
- Masseria Degli Ulivi
(Both within minutes of each other)
We've negotiated a great rate with these venues, and the subsidized cost to guests will be around $180 / night per room.
No need to book anything on your own unless we explicitly say otherwise, as we are working directly with these venues to make booking for our guests an easy process.
Why noto?
Because Devin's father's family is from Ucria, a mountain town inland from Noto.
Noto felt like the right place to gather: open to the sea, built for long evenings and shared meals.
Here's the style guide for the big night
Formal dress code: Baroque tie
The venue is stone. The guests are jewels.
Dress like something precious unearthed from a sicilian quarry.
Women's
Dress code: Formal
Formal eveningwear only. Think drama, weight, intention.
Re: heels
The quarry floor is ancient stone. Delicate stilettos may not survive.
The earth is uneven. Choose shoes that can walk, stand, and dance without regret.
Bring something for the dark
As the sun drops, the air cools. a shawl, a thin layer — functional or theatrical.
Outshine the bride
Yes, really. We request it. Bring your best. Restraint is overrated.
Men's
Suit, please
This is not a casual italy moment.
Real shoes only
If you'd wear them to the beach or the gym, no.
Lean formal
Err on the side of overdressed. No one has ever regretted that.
Light is fine
Stone and warm neutrals work beautifully here.
Q&A
When is the RSVP deadline?
Please RSVP by Mar 15 so we can finalize our headcount.
Can I bring a date?
Please check your invitation to see if a +1 is included.
Are kids welcome?
Children are warmly invited to join us for our pre and post-wedding celebrations.
For the ceremony, we'll provide on-site childcare at the masseria with trusted nannies so parents can fully enjoy the moment. kids will be cared for nearby and reunited with you shortly after. full details to come.
What will the weather be like?
Warm, dry, sunny days with cooler evenings. Think summer layers.
Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will be outdoors. It will be hot in august. Stay hydrated.
What kind of shoes should i wear?
No stiletto heels. Uneven terrain.
Chunky heels, platforms, sandals, or flats recommended. No sneakers.
Is it okay to take photos?
Yes! — please do, and share them on our wedding instagram @fel.marries.dev.
We do ask that phones and cameras stay away during the ceremony itself.
Can I bring a gift?
Your presence truly means everything to us. This is a destination wedding and traveling to sicily is already a big commitment. If you're joining us, that's more than enough.
Who should I contact with questions?
We'll add everyone to a wedding whatsapp group about a month before the event. it'll be the best place for updates, questions, and on-the-ground orientation. In the mean time please reach out to Felicity or Devin with questions.